Monday, January 19, 2009

Daddy Day Care

Well, today was a big day in the Campbell household. While I had to go to work on MLK day (YUCK), Lyle was lucky enough to have the day off. So Hudson got to spend all day at home with his daddy. Now, I have to admit, I was a little nervous leaving the two home alone together. Hudson has just starting eating baby food, rolling over, and yes, even throwing little temper tantrums. I wasn't sure how Lyle would handle an entire day at home alone with the baby. I knew in my head that Lyle could handle it, but it is still very hard for me to leave him. It was going to be a true test for Lyle.
So after I left Lyle a million instructions, I got in the car and sadly drove off to work. I decided to swing by Starbucks for a quick "pick me up." It was sure to make me feel better. Before I got pregnant, I went by Starbucks everyday. Yes, I know, it was a bad habit. Today was my first time to go back in such a long time. I was so looking forward to my yummy caramel mochiotto. I was waiting in line just feeling sorry for myself that I had to go to work and dreading all the interviews that I had to hold for the day and realized that the guy in front of me was taking a long time to pay out. My patience was wearing thin. It appeared he was not prepared to pay and had to dig around in his car for some change. When I was finally able to pull up to the window, Lee, the friendly Starbucks manager, said, "That gentlemen in front of you paid for your coffee." WHAT??? I was so shocked and surprised. What a nice gesture. He told me the gentleman's name was David and that he was a regular there and that he did this sort of thing quite often. It just made my day and I quickly started feeling guilty about becoming impatient with him. I think God was telling me that I needed to work on my patience and I vowed right then that I would "pay if forward" and make someone else's day.
So when I got on the road, I called Lyle....not to check on Hudson, but to tell him about the nice man at Starbucks. Lyle texted me later that morning to let me know that everything was going fine. I only called twice to check on them both throughout the day and to remind Lyle of my directions about feeding time. He just listened and never said a word. I know he knew that it just made me feel better to restate my instructions one more time.
When I got home, I was never more pleased to find a very happy baby. He was laughing like I had never heard him laugh before. Hudson thoroughly enjoyed his day home with his daddy. I asked Lyle if he would consider being a stay at home dad. He said, "not so much." So Daddy's Day Care was a success and I come to learn that it was not a true test for Lyle, but for me. Lyle is such a good dad and it melts my heart to see the bond that he and Hudson share. I guess this was a milestone for mommy, not Hudson and daddy.
On one other note, since Hudson has starting eating baby food, he now poops A LOT! Today, he had five poopy diapers. Granted not all of them were ginormous poops, but really....five times. He is a pooping machine.
Hudson turned five months last Wednesday. Time is flying by. I just keep reminding myself to soak up this time as much as possible.
Have a great week! Time to go watch The Bachelor!!!

3 comments:

ashley said...
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ashley said...

okay, a few things...
1. the bachelor is my guilty tv pleasure these days too! which girl do you like the best? I can't believe he gave megan a rose. shocker!
2. it makes me sad that leaving babies at home doesn't get any easier as they get older.
3. isn't it funny that blogging about poop seems so normal now? I just wrote a blog last night about breast pumps. life has definitely changed.
4. what did you do to pay it forward that day? I wish someone would pay for my grande decaf single shot sugar free caramel macchiato too! what a cool blessing.
5. anytime I leave grace home with dan, I call five times and make sure everything is okay. I am impressed you only called twice! why is it so hard to trust the daddy? dan is putting her down right now and it is all I can do to not go in there and do it the "right way!"
6. and finally, I thought of you the other day because grace was being fussy and I started singing salt n peppa's none of your business! she loved it, but I feel guilty singing that to her. those lyrics are horrible! so glad you guys are doing well. hudson is just adorable

Shaunna said...

Blake has kept Addilyn a few times all day, and he's done great! I too was a little surprised the first time I left them alone together for a whole day...I thought it would be a disaster for sure. Turns out daddys really CAN babysit, and they really can do a great job! Way to go Lyle!!

How sweet of the "pay it forward" man! What a nice Monday morning surprise!!

And, I L-O-V-E the Bachelor! Monday nights are my fav!! Glad I'm not the only one;)

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